I’m going to start to get a little more “life coach” on you here. It’s perhaps the BIGGEST LEGACY my parents left me with almost 10 years ago.

And I am this many days old and realizing it….

Today.

Many people go through their entire lives not knowing what theIr PURPOSE is. Yup. They go day IN and day OUT without really knowing what they want, what they were put here to do, and what their truest potential really is.

Beyond that….

Perhaps because they don’t know;

They end too soon. Or they quit.

Rounding out the last quarter of my 21 days here (which mind you took me a LONG TIME to complete) is a little nudge, a little kick in the and a reminder that what happens to you in life isn’t always something within your control, BUT, how you choose to react to it and respond to it IS your responsibility.

As we roll into yet another NEW YEAR, remember that there are a lot of other people who won’t be joining you in that privilege. They sadly are less fortunate and aren’t going to make it.

On my deepest and darkest days, sometimes that little reminder is all I need to pick myself up and keep going- one step at a time. One in front of the other.

Realistically, it’s normal to have these days. We ALL have them. Even the people who look like they have it all together.

Your responsibility (and you owe this to yourself if no one has told you this yet) is to make sure that you analyze and reflect on YOURSELF.

Ride high on the good.

But take note on the “bad”.

…..reflect on whether or not it was designed not by accident to happen to YOU, but rather as a complete and purposeful PIECE that the universe put in your path to get you to where you really need to go- and where you may not even realize you are going!!!!!!

Also make note to when your “CUP” seems half full…..

I mean…..Is it???

And how are YOU responding when it’s half full?

What is “your response” in these moments?

•Do you complain?

•Do you blame others?

•Do you throw yourself into a tantrum in the corner and feel sorry for yourself?

Because you CAN change the

CUP size.

You also can make a decision about what YOU ARE FILLING YOUR CUP WITH.

Maybe it’s something entirely different.

Maybe you have “buckets” and you are filling your buckets with the wrong things.

Or….

Maybe you need less buckets.

…..go back to the cup and

start there….

Decide what it is YOU WANT in 2023.

xo